I am 34 but have never had sex because the tip of my penis is too sensitive

Masturbation is a challenge. I have to do it without touching the head and it is still painful for days.

My doctor gave me a gel to de-sensitise it but it didn’t help. He then referred to me to a urologist who suggested circumcision but there was no guarantee of success.

I am trapped with a penis which looks normal but does not work properly.

I really want a relationship but can’t see how this can happen.

I am so desperate that I would do anything to kill off my sex drive.

DEIDRE SAYS: How awful. You are a young man and, of course, you long for a normal sex life.

It’s worth asking your GP for a referral to a venereologist as they often have the most expertise with this sort of problem.

Some men with this condition find a condom works. You can experiment with different types.

Don’t let this stop you developing friendships and relationships with girls.

Someone who loves you would be understanding.


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