DEAR DEIDRE: MY husband and I were at it like rabbits when we got together, but now I’m having online sex chat with other men.
My virtual liaisons make me feel so sexy and desirable again after the passion with my husband faded.
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I only really married him because I wanted a baby — I didn’t want him. My husband is older than me at 40, while I’m 32.
We got married six months after meeting but as soon as my daughter was born, the love and affection stopped. We live like brother and sister. There’s no cuddling or sex.
I need affection, which these men deliver. They make me feel sexy again and that’s what excites me.
I started chatting to one man in particular — a single dad with a son of five. He’s 34, is kind, considerate and a great dad.
We chat every day online while my husband works in our local hospital.
Our chats have turned to sexting and he makes me feel so good.
He was the first to say he loves me and we haven’t even met.
This guy has asked me to move to where he lives and I’m tempted — but it’s three hours away and my husband would hardly get to see our daughter.
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My husband loves me as my daughter’s mother, but that’s where it ends.
I’m scared if I move away, I’ll lose everything. It’s a big risk.
I feel rejected and unloved by my husband. Should I make a fresh start with my online man?
DEIDRE SAYS: Slow down before you make an irreversible decision you’ll regret.
Ask yourself if you have focused so much on your daughter that you no longer give your husband enough attention and, in turn, he has distanced himself from you.
While you seek approval from outside your marriage, you will never be able to make that relationship work.
Ask your online love interest to wait for now and if he’s sincere, he’ll give you space while you sort out your marriage.
Committing to your husband for the sake of having a baby was naive at best and now it’s come back to bite you.
You owe it to your daughter to give your marriage your best shot.
Ask your husband what is lacking in your relationship. Tell him what you want.
If your flagging bedroom life is your priority, then my support pack called Reviving A Man’s Sex Drive can help.
If things don’t improve, then separation may be best, in which case, you’ll be free to meet your new man to see if you like him as much in the flesh.
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