My wife has been cheating on me since we got married 20 years ago — and I can't take it anymore

DEAR DEIDRE: MY wife has cheated on me constantly since we got married 20 years ago.

She’s 43 and I’m 48. She had a fling with a work colleague six months after our wedding.

She then had a year-long affair with my sister’s husband.

When we had the kids, she gave up work and didn’t have time for men.

But now they’re grown up and she has a cleaning job.

I read her phone messages and apparently she’s been sexting and having sex with younger men whose apartments she cleans.

I spoke to one of those she was sexting and he insisted they’d not actually had sex.

She’d told him I’d died so she wanted to wait!

I don’t know if I can take any more.

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DEIDRE SAYS: I don’t blame you. You have put up with a lot. It is time to think about yourself and decide whether enough is enough.

Tell her she must change and together read my e-leaflet Cheating – Can You Get Over It?

You need to get to the root of her behaviour, whether that is a flagging sex life, you two growing apart or her addiction to sex.

Sources of support are listed in the leaflet.

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