DEAR DEIDRE: THE first time we had sex, my girlfriend swore she was a virgin. But I had my doubts.
I am 30 and she is 23. We met nine months ago. It took two months before she admitted she’d had sex with an ex.
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I wasn’t bothered about that so much as the fact she’d lied to me.
She was staring into space the other night, so I asked what she was thinking.
She snapped at me that I was accusing her of thinking about another guy.
I told her she needs to stop assuming the worst of me.
Family and friends have betrayed me in the past and it isn’t easy for me to trust.
She swears she is madly in love with me yet I feel she holds back about her past.
DEIDRE SAYS: Your fears over being “betrayed” again make you super-sensitive and she is picking up on that, even if you are not spelling it out.
Her past is her past and she is under no obligation to share details unless and until she is ready.
Stop feeling threatened by guys she has moved on from.
Ask for a hug when you feel insecure and try the tips in my e-leaflet Coping With Jealousy.
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