DEAR DEIDRE: I FEEL so disgusted with myself for having sex with my neighbour and being out of control.
I’m a 29 year-old single mum to a five-year-old boy and have just got out of an abusive relationship.
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My son’s dad was violent if he’d had a drink. I finally got away and moved somewhere new.
My mum often has my little boy and on one of these days, I was cleaning my car when my neighbour wandered over and introduced himself.
He is 31 and offered me a coffee.
When I went to his house, he offered me some weed. I had never had anything like that before and it made me feel really heavy and then sick.
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He kissed me and we ended up having sex. I was pretty spaced out but I didn’t say “No”.
I’ve let myself down.
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DEIDRE SAYS: You were under the influence of cannabis, which made you relax. It was a mistake. Don’t beat yourself up about it.
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