She is 39, I am 43 and we have been together for 13 years.
We are happy and get on really well, but I long for the intimacy we once shared.
If I say anything she says I am pestering her.
I remember when we were trying to get pregnant eight years ago and she was game-on for sex.
Now it seems she has what she wants in life with our son, who is a great little lad, and sex is the last thing on her mind. How can I get her interested again?
DEIDRE SAYS: Your wife may well be enjoying the peace and quiet when your son isn’t around.
But you are resentful and that is bound to create tension even if you are not voicing it.
Tell your wife this is creating a serious rift in your marriage and ask her to work with you to find a compromise that works for you both.
My e-leaflet Reviving A Woman’s Sex Drive explains lots of self-help.
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