My husband’s having our first dance with his mum, they’re calling me a Bridezilla because the song is inappropriate

YOUR wedding should be the most special day, with all the attention on you and your partner.

However, for this worried bride, she felt her husband-to-be's music request was a little too much.

Sharing on Reddit, she said: "On our wedding day my fiancé said he and his mum want to do a slow dance with the song 'Can't help falling in love' by Elvis Presley.

"Mind you this is the first dance at our wedding. I said that it kind of looks awkward but they said that it's not at all.

"And if I oppose I am seen as controlling; sort of a bridezilla." The bride worried.

"My fiancé and his mum are very close. Whenever we talk on the phone, I'm always on speaker and his mum usually hears about everything," she explained.

"Anyways I didn't want to keep explaining my point of view, as he was already complaining that I pretty much planned or 'controlled' the whole wedding.

"With all the guests, including me watching I guess we'll just see how it turns out on our wedding day, " she concluded her predicament.

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Commenters flooded to the bride's defence and that she has every right to feel unenthusiastic about her grooms plan.

One concerned commenter asked: "Does the song have a special meaning to them? Like his parents' song or first song they danced to? If it's something like that, then have the DJ or whoever announce 'its time for the groom to dance with his mum.'"

"I absolutely cannot stand mother son relationships like this," wrote another.

A parent said: "I have a six-year-old son and I love that little boy to pieces. My job is to raise him to be a good partner to someone else and to love them more than anything, even me.

"If he puts me over his fiancé and agrees to s*** like this, I have f****d up."

While another remembered a wedding they went to: "I saw a mother-son dance to 'Your body is a wonderland' and that was so cringey."

To help him realise it is an odd decision in a subtle way, one suggested: "Tell him to run it by some of his friends or better yet bring it up in front of mutual friends and ask for their thoughts.

"Pretty sure everyone else on the planet is going to find all that weird. At least change the song or you two go first in the dancing order."

A wedding musician even chimed in, saying: "I'm a wedding musician, I can confirm that song is used for romantic moments between the bride and groom.

"In fact, over the past two to three years it's been one of the top choices for the bride's entrance during the ceremony.

"I've also seen it used as the couple's first dance pretty often. This song is all about the bride, no doubt.

"I've worked hundreds of weddings and if this was the mother/son dance my eyebrows would be raised sky high."

While one offered, rather hilariously: "I would suggest postponing the wedding until your fiancé grows up."

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