Abbie Chatfield and Konrad Bień-Stephen see each other twice a week

Abbie Chatfield says letting boyfriend Konrad Bień-Stephen sleep with other people is her ‘kink’ and reveals they see each other just ‘twice a week’ – after the couple announced that they’re in an open relationship

Abbie Chatfield has revealed she and boyfriend Konrad Bień-Stephen only see each other a few times a week – and her ‘kink’ is letting him sleep with other women.

The podcaster tells this week’s issue of Stellar Magazine the pair don’t spend a lot of time together and value their open relationship. 

‘I’ve never been upset or threatened by someone [I’m in a relationship with] sleeping with someone else. It’s my kink’ the 27-year-old said. 

Abbie Chatfield has revealed that she and boyfriend Konrad Bień-Stephen only see each other a few times a week. Both pictured 

‘I just never really valued monogamy that much. It sounds awful, but I don’t really see him all that much, maybe two days a week. 

‘I don’t know if it’s scarcity, but he’s very good at communicating, and so am I,’ she added. 

In June, Abbie revealed she finally slept with somebody else months after the pair made their relationship open.  

‘I’ve never been upset or threatened by someone [I’m in a relationship with] sleeping with someone else. It’s my kink’ the 27-year-old said

Discussing the topic on her podcast, It’s a Lot, Abbie announced: ‘I finally rooted someone, which is nice. Good for me.’

She added: ‘It was nice, that’s all I’m gonna say. Moving on.’

It comes after Abbie revealed on her podcast earlier this year that she hadn’t had sex with Konrad in over three weeks. 

‘I just never really valued monogamy that much. It sounds awful, but I don’t really see him all that much, maybe two days a week’ Abbie admitted 

‘We haven’t had sex for, like, three and a half weeks,’ the former Bachelor star said.

‘We’ve only had one night together, like [an] actual night where I’m not working and we’re not away from each other.’

Abbie went on to say she was having a ‘really hard time with [her] libido’.

 ‘I don’t know if it’s scarcity, but he’s very good at communicating, and so am I’ she added

‘I can’t be f**ked and also my UTI issues. I can’t be bothered with this, like I don’t have time to have a UTI. I’m not sleeping, I’m not eating,’ she said.

Abbie explained she was worried her lack of sex drive meant she didn’t have feelings for Konrad, but her therapist assured her she will want to have sex again once she gets her sleeping and eating under control. 

Abbie surprised her fans back in February by announcing that she’s was in open relationship with Konrad.

Abbie surprised her fans back in February by announcing that she’s was in open relationship with Konrad

At the time, the influencer strenuously defended her non-traditional relationship, insisting there’s nothing wrong with having multiple sexual partners.

‘Some of you f**kers are so embarrassingly triggered because you’re so insecure. You’re like, “But if you love someone, you only want to f**k them!” Not me, and not [Konrad],’ she said in a video on Instagram Stories.

‘If that’s how you feel, it’s so fine. Be monogamous! [But] why do you care if I f**k someone else or he f**ks someone else?’ she added.

 In June, Abbie revealed that finally slept with somebody else

Abbie also revealed their relationship had been ‘open the whole time’.

‘Why are you all assuming that I’m forcing him [into an open relationship], after we said multiple times, “We agree with this.” We were talking about this before we even had sex. We were talking about it, like, when we hadn’t even kissed yet!’ she said.

‘Like, babes. I’m not forcing him to do anything. In fact he’s the one that’s f**king someone else… because I’m too busy. But like, it’s fine. We also didn’t only become open today.’

 Abbie also revealed their relationship had been ‘open the whole time’

Abbie said open relationships are more common than most people realise, and that polyamorous people often hide in the shadows due to social ‘stigma’.

‘I can pretty much guarantee that if you live in a populated area and you have a lot of friends from a lot of different walks of life, one of them is probably in an open relationship,’ she said.

‘But they’re not telling you either because they’re ashamed because of the stigma, or because you specifically are so closed minded they know you will give them s**t and question the value of their relationship.’

She then insisted Konrad is ‘happy’ and that they love each other despite what others may believe. 

She said open relationships are more common than most people realise, and that polyamorous people often hide in the shadows due to social ‘stigma’

‘Just because you want everyone to want monogamy as much as you do, doesn’t mean that someone not wanting monogamy is a bad thing,’ she declared. 

It was revealed the pair were dated when they were spotted sharing a steamy kiss with Abbie, 26, at the Beach Hotel in Byron Bay in November last year. 

At the time, Konrad was appeared on Brooke Blurton’s season of The Bachelorette. 

The couple went Instagram official later that month, confirming that they were a couple.  

Read more: In this week’s issue of Stellar Magazine with Abbie Chatfield on the cover 

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