Aussie dating expert Louanne Ward, from Perth, has more than 20 years' experience in coaching and matchmaking super wealthy clients – and charges up to £8,170 ($15,000 AUS) for her services.
Now she's revealed the warning signs your partner isn't The One, in a new Facebook video.
From rushing into a relationship, to sudden rages and talking about sex too much, these are the things you should be looking out for.
1. What's the rush?
"Sometimes we meet somebody who swoops you off your feet and tells you everything you want to hear and they whisk you off on this lovely, magical journey," Louanne said.
He may sound like the dream guy, but he absolutely isn't.
If someone is trying to rush a relationship, it could be a sign they are "manipulative" and "controlling". You've been warned.
2. Sex-rated chats
It's healthy chat about sex with your partner, but if that's all they want to talk about, it could be a warning sign.
Louanne says to watch out for people who constantly question you about what you're wearing, or compliment you excessively on your body.
It's especially worrying if this is someone you haven't slept with yet.
3. All the rage
Does your date constantly fly off the handle over small things?
Red flags could include storming out of the room, sending abusive text messages or hanging up during a phone call – especially if there seems to be no cause.
Even if this person apologises and offers their excuses, you shouldn't have to put up with the "rollercoaster of anger and apology", so walk away if it becomes a habit.
4. Picture this
Lots of relationships start on social media these days, but if they don't have any photos of themselves, it could be another red flag.
No-one wants to sound shallow, but a total lack of selfies could suggest "they have something to hide", Louanne warned.
She added: "If you've connected with somebody on social media, this is something to be extra cautious about because if they've started a relationship with you on social media, it's their potential fishing ground."
5. 'I don't know what I want'
You're being pursued relentlessly by a potential date, but then they tell you they don't know what they want, and aren't sure if they're looking for a relationship.
This one is probably ringing a bell for most of us,
Lots of people ignore this red flag, because they want to believe the person will change their mind, but this could indicate your own issues with self-esteem and self-worth.
Louanne's 8 red flags
6. Phoney excuse
Does it feel like the other person holds all the power when it comes to texting, calling or arranging a date?
"You might send them a message or phone them and they don't pick up or they don't reply to your message straight away. Sometimes they can leave you dangling for hours or days," Louanne warned.
Even if they make up excuses, Louanne says to be wary of this selfish behaviour.
"When somebody needs to control when they can and can't speak to you, it's often an indicator there is a third person involved," she explained.
7. Can't commit
If the person you're dating refuses to commit to concrete plans, it could be time to walk away.
Even if they still text regularly, a reluctance to make plans is a big no-no.
"(It's) another telltale sign and a big red flag that you may not be the only person that they are seeing," Louanne added.
8. Big little lies
Most people would let the odd white lie slip, but it could be a sign of something more sinister.
If the person you're dating is constantly twisting the truth, it could be a sign they're a "compulsive liar" or are dating other people.
Louanne explained: "They (could be) trying to manipulate a situation to get their own way."
Louanne previously revealed the seven things which turn blokes off… so how many are you guilty of?
While this woman, 27, married her best mate’s DAD who is double her age… and now the trio all go on holiday together.
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