Sia Cooper has had enough, y’all. The popular Instagram fitness star — and mother — has over a million followers. And she is sick to death of trolls telling her to “cover up” after she recently posted a playful bikini shot of herself.
“To show your gains you don’t have to show your behind like that, you are a mother, think about what [sic] your children see your behind in the future, unfollowed,” wrote one commenter.
Others quickly piled on: “I wonder what your kids will be flaunting in the future now that they know that it is acceptable to post their half naked butt online. Hmm! This is why people keep getting worse and worse. They show the whole world what is meant to be kept in the privacy of their own homes.”
Another complained: “This just in. Women are crazy. They always seek attention.” Niiiiiiice.
Cooper responded to the mom-shamers and misogynist trolls with a long Instagram post defending the photo.
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Cooper said, “The other day, I had posted a photo of myself in this very same bikini and was told to cover up… because I am a mother. Cue the mom-shaming.
“Since when were moms supposed to hide their bodies? Since when were mothers no longer allowed to feel sexy? How do you think babies even got here in the first place?
“She went on to say that I should think about what my kids will think of my behind someday. You know what? I want my kids to see a mother who’s body positive. I want my kids to see a mother who’s confident in her own skin. Plus, they love my butt and use it as a bongo when I’m cooking dinner or awkwardly standing in line at the grocery store. Anyone else, no?
“There is no rule out there that states you can’t rock a bikini just because you pushed a baby out of your vagina at some point in your life. In fact, that should make you worthy of one and so much more….
“Sometimes, all a mother needs is to truly FEEL herself. Let’s face it: motherhood can make us feel less than sexy. It leaves us drained, depressed, exhausted, and staring into a mirror, looking at a former shell of ourselves that we barely recognize anymore. And don’t get me started on our postpartum bodies.. it can be harder to celebrate our bodies when they’re covered with stretches marks and loose skin.
“So mamas, put on your bikinis. You’ve earned it. Every woman deserves to feel comfortable in her own skin without society’s judgy opinions.
“Let the mom-judging stop. Motherhood is already tough as it is. We are damned if we do, damned if we don’t so stay true to yourself.”
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To all of which we say…HELL YES.
We spoke with Cooper to find out what she feels are the most disheartening responses to her body-positive messaging.
Cooper told SheKnows, “The most vicious comments that I receive are usually trolls who comment negatively on my body. I’ve been taunted for having cellulite and for being ‘fat’ last year when I had gained some weight. I’ve also been told that I look like a ‘tranny’ or ‘manly.’”
Cooper continued, “Sometimes I feel the more positive you are about your own body, the more negative some people will be because they are either unhappy with themselves or can’t handle the positive vibes.”
But when we asked Cooper what she might say to the anonymous trolls who hammer her with negative comments, her answer both surprised and moved us.
Fortunately, Cooper’s many fans have embraced her message of fitness and loving oneself. One follower wrote movingly, “[The bikini photo] may have cost you a follower, but you have no idea how many women you probably empowered by having the courage to post a picture that highlights something you may be or may have been insecure about. Body positivity is such a huge thing to me especially being a girl mom. I want my daughter to know that she is always beautiful… Thank you for showing moms like me that it is possible to take care of yourself and be a mom….”
Another fan wrote, “As a mom, I follow the shit out of you! You inspire me so much. And you know something, my kids have noticed how much more body positive I am since I’ve started getting my gains! You can’t make that woman happy and that’s ok- she ain’t for your page then. But don’t ever forget, you do help so many others!”
Like Sia, we’re so over the mom-shaming, it’s not even funny. We were hoping it was a fleeting, nasty trend, like the time Kourtney Kardashian too was shamed for wearing a sexy bikini. But somehow, it shows no sign of going away. We’re not going to quit calling it out, because if there’s anything we hate, it’s women tearing other women down. Cheers to Cooper for her wise, empowering, and ultimately body-positive words. We’re here for her — and her bikini.
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