Kehlani says public response to pregnancy wasn’t nice

After coming out as queer earlier this year, Kehlani faced some backlash after announcing her pregnancy.

“I’ve gotten everything from ‘I thought she was a lesbian’ to ‘she was using queerness to promote her career, then went and betrayed us with a man’ to ‘her baby father is just a sperm donor,’” she shared with Nylon.

In mid-October, Kehlani, 23, announced in an Instagram post she is expecting her first child. She didn’t name her partner. While some fans were supportive of her new chapter, others wonder if she was lying about her queerness all along.

“I don’t make music with an agenda,” said the “Honey” singer. “I make songs directly from the time in my life I am inspired, meaning it follows the actual real timeline of my life.”

Furthermore, Kehlani says she never wanted to be a poster child or the “queer icon” she was made out to be. “Having so much attention on me outside my art already gives me enough anxiety,” she emphasized. “I have always said, and will always say, there are people out there in this community fighting for equality in realer ways than making songs about it and performing at events like I am, and those are the ‘queeroes.’”

Moving forward, Kehlani’s thrilled to meet her daughter. She also has sound advice for her daughter including listen to your heart and be kind to yourself as mistakes will happen.

“I will remind her that she is whatever she wants to be, and that sometimes that changes,” she added. “I have a feeling she will be giving me a lot of advice when she is 23. She will be better than me in any and every aspect. I can’t wait to learn from her.”

Kehlani is due in 2019.

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