Why does my Instagram crush keep blocking me?

DEAR DEIDRE: I’VE fallen for a woman on Instagram but she keeps blocking me.

I first spotted her on TikTok, where she posts funny videos with her niece.


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One night I realised she’d linked her Instagram account, so I decided to message her.Initially, it was just a friendly chat about her videos.

But slowly the conversation became flirtier. Soon we were messaging all day, every day.

She’s 23, I’m 26. But every two weeks or so, she suddenly blocks me.

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I won’t hear from her for a few days. Then she’ll add me and blame Instagram or her phone for “having a meltdown”.

I’m starting to develop feelings for her and want to meet but something doesn’t seem right.

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DEIDRE SAYS: You don’t really know this woman and there are multiple reasons why she could be doing this.

If she wanted to get to know you, she wouldn’t keep disappearing.

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