The millennial dating trends you need to be aware of in 2019

Grande-ing, Instagrandstanding and Banksying: The millennial dating trends you need to be aware of in 2019

  • There are eight brand new dating terms will be gaining popularity in 2019 
  • These terms have been coined following a survey in December 2018 
  • The statistics reveal just how prevalent these trends are amongst singles 

You’ve heard of ghosting, kitten-fishing and bread-crumbing, but now eight brand new terms will be gaining popularity in 2019.

These terms have been coined by the experts at dating app Plenty of Fish, following a survey of over 800 of their users in December 2018.

From scrooging to throning, the following statistics reveal just how prevalent these trends are among singles.

So how many are you guilty of? 

You’ve heard of ghosting, kitten-fishing and bread-crumbing, but now eight brand new terms will be gaining popularity in 2019

Grande-ing

This term describes when people celebrate after a break up, recently made popular by pop sensation Ariana Grande and her song Thank u, next.

Grande-ing involves practicing gratefulness at the end of a relationship and rejecting negativity and bitterness as you move forward with your life.

46 per cent of people surveyed admit to Grande-ing in the past. Women are significantly more likely to Grande than men, (with 53 per cent of women and 40 per cent of men).

This trend is also particularly prevalent among older generations, with over half (55 per cent) of 41 to 45 year olds most likely to look back fondly on past relationships.


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This term describes when people celebrate after a break up, recently made popular by pop sensation Ariana Grande and her song Thank u, next

What is the most popular day for dating? 

Dating Sunday, the first Sunday of the New Year, has a reputation for being ‘the busiest day of the year for online dating’. 

Dating Sunday highlights: 

– There was a 75 per cent spike in new dating app users on Dating Sunday, compared to the past 30 days. 

– There was a 26 per cent increase in activity compared to the previous week.

– Daters are 17 per cent more likely to match on Dating Sunday.

– Daters are 16 per cent more likely to chat with a match compared to the previous week. 

· The first week of January is the most popular time to sign up for a dating app.

Source: Coffee Meets Bagel 

Instagrandstanding

This is when daters curate their Instagram feed with one person in mind – specifically posting pictures that will appeal to their crush.

Over half (52 per cent) of those surveyed admit to tailoring their Instagram feed with another person in mind.

More (54 per cent) have been on the receiving end of it and even more still (61 per cent) know of someone having done it.

22 to 25 year olds are the age group most guilty of Instagrandstanding, with more than two thirds (69 per cent) having done so.

Banksying

Just like the artwork ‘Girl with Balloon’ by Banksy was shredded and ruined on purpose, this is a breakup that is carefully planned way in advance.

A quarter (25 per cent) of daters admit to planning the destruction of their own relationship way before it happened.

Sadly, nearly double that (48 per cent) suspect they’ve been on the receiving end of Banksying. 

Just like the artwork ‘Girl with Balloon’ by Banksy was shredded and ruined on purpose, this is a breakup that is carefully planned way in advance

Scrooging

Scrooging is when someone breaks up with their partner shortly before the festive season just so they don’t have to get them a gift.

It’s bad news for couples as Christmas approaches – nearly a quarter (23 per cent) of those surveyed have been Scrooged in the past.

To make things worse, three quarters (74 per cent) feel people should break up with their partner whenever they feel is right, even if it is Christmas time. 

Throning

This involves a lover dating someone to boost their personal profile or reputation, similar to Kim Kardashian and Kanye West.

Only seven per cent of singles admit to Throning themselves, but three times more (18 per cent) suspect that someone has done it to them.

Men are actually more likely to Throne than women (10 per cent for men, and just three per cent for women).

This involves lovers dating someone to boost their personal profile or reputation, similar to Kim Kardashian and Kanye West

Cohabidating

Shacking up with your new partner in a hurry just to relieve financial stress, even though you may not be quite ready yet, is also known as cohabidating.

In a real sign of the times, four in 10 (40 per cent) of singles know of someone who has rushed into co-habiting too soon for financial reasons.

Men are slightly more likely to have done this than women as 16 per cent of men surveyed said they had done it while only 10 per cent of women said they had. 

You-Turn

This term explains falling head over heels in love with someone but suddenly changing your mind for one reason or another.

More than a quarter (29 per cent) of daters have experienced a sudden change of heart with a partner.

Women are more likely to You-Turn and suddenly bail on a relationship than men are (37 per cent for women, 23 per cent for men).

Vulturing

Vulturing is when those on the dating scene become a lot more romantically interested in someone when they sense their current relationship is about to end, then they swoop in to pick up the pieces.

16 per cent admit to ‘swooping in’ after sensing a love interest’s own relationship might be about to end. 

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