They were not even what I would call proper relationships but my boyfriend goes all paranoid over them.
I am 21 and he is 24.
He has never had sex with anyone else.
I would not have mentioned my past but he asked about it and I wanted to be honest.
Now I am beginning to wish I hadn’t. He accuses me of thinking about past boyfriends and I can’t convince him I’m not.
He worries that other people will see pictures of us together and tell friends they once went with me.
I don’t know how to make him believe they were nothing to me.
DEIDRE SAYS: We all come with a past which goes towards making us the person we are today.
Tell your boyfriend this and that you were just waiting for the right guy to come along and now he has.
But be firm that his worries stem from his own insecurity, and you’re not doing anything wrong.
He can ask you for a reassuring hug any time but he must stop making unjust accusations.
My e-leaflet Dealing With Jealousy will help you both.
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