Gift-giving can be tricky, but something your partner probably won’t mind is more sex with you. And nothing beats trying something new in bed that you’ll both love. Here are some ideas to get you started:
~*For Your Girlfriend*~
1. For your girlfriend who never orgasms from penetrative stuff alone.
Buy her one of these incredible new clitoral vibrators and bust it out before she even has to go fumbling over to her bedside table drawer.
2. For your girlfriend who hates being on top.
Woman-on-top sex can be tougher to pair a standard vibrator with compared to, say, doggy-style. So a couple’s vibe might help shrink that orgasm gap. Alternatively, you can also just go down on her for like, an hour. This is secretly all she wants!
3. For your adventurous girlfriend who would have sex with you while parasailing if she could.
Buy inspo cards for sex positions in every room of your house. Kitchen table? Sure. Bathroom floor? Why not? Oh, because no one’s cleaned it in two weeks and it’s disgusting? Good point. Kitchen table it is.
4. For your shy girlfriend who struggles to tell you what she really wants.
Sometimes, show is so much more powerful than tell, so let her tie you up and blindfold you. This way she has all the power to do whatever it is she secretly dreams of doing in bed. Beware, this can often turn women into people who enjoy having sex with you so much they’ll want to do it all the time. I know, I’m sorry, there’s nothing I can do to stop that.
5. For your chatty girlfriend who is like a human sex noise megaphone.
Trust: you’re not the first person to be intimidated by the idea of dirty talk. But if you’re a quiet person with a loud-in-bed girlfriend, try reading a book for suggestions on what to say to her in bed or just make sure she hears you moan from time to time. A quiet partner who finally starts to audibly pant even a little bit in bed is like 12 Rolex watches to a loudmouth girl.
6. For your girlfriend who can only come in doggy-style, even though it sometimes gets boring for you.
First off: have sex with her for six hours, in doggy-style position, over and over again, selflessly. Plus, how much of a sacrifice is it? You’re both coming and it’s a present. Your teenage self would kill for this. But if you do want to low-key change things up a tiny bit, you can always use a Liberator wedge or stack of pillows to try out some new angles (also, she can lie down instead of staying on her knees, which she will probably not mind at all).
7. For your girlfriend who needs some sexual stress relief ASAP.
An orgasm is already a great way to relax, but why not take it one step further and give your girlfriend a thorough, much-needed back massage first? Letting her vent about her boss as you knead her shoulders is highly-underrated foreplay.
~*For Your Boyfriend*~
1. For your shy boyfriend who you have a feeling is secretly a super freak.
Shy guys sometimes have a hard time saying what they really want because they don’t want to scare you or have you think that if you don’t do it, they’ll be mad. One option is buying a book and going through positions you’d like to try, or you can also have him show you the porn he’s into and ask him to point out what he likes. Don’t freak out if it’s some scary nightmare stuff, but if you can find some things in there you’d be into doing, initiating that with him in bed will make him happier than all the Star Wars premieres combined.
2. For your boyfriend with a roleplay fantasy.
Walk into any sexy store. Tell him he has a budget he has to stick to, but that he can buy you anything to wear in the store and you’ll put it on tonight, no questions asked. Or if you already know about his fantasy, surprise him with it.
3. For your kinky boyfriend who spanks you sometimes just to see if you’re into it.
If you’ve wanted him to be a little rougher and get the strong vibe that he’d love that too, grab a safe word and some restraints and have him tie you up. Obviously, make sure you guys talk about how far you want to go beforehand, so you can go HAM with ease.
4. For your ass-obsessed boyfriend who can’t stop bookmarking Nicki Minaj videos.
Buy him a little leather flogger he can spank you with while you do it doggy-style. It’s lightweight enough that it’s not as intense as a paddle and honestly he’ll just be so hyped to get to spend up close and personal time with your real-time butt-filled music video that the flogger is just icing on the booty cake.
5. For your boob-obsessed boyfriend who would touch them nonstop if you were cool with it.
If you’ve ever been on top of him and felt weird about your breasts flying all over the place, let me tell you, he would gladly hold them for you if you asked. Get on top of him and have him play with your nipples and do anything else he’s always wanted to do while you ride him. If nipple clamps are your thing, sure! Add those too. Either way, if you specifically mention that he has a free pass to pay more attention to your tits, his eyes will light up like he just saw a Christmas tree made entirely of boobs.
6. For your boyfriend who goes wild for a good handjob.
Up his HJ experience (and yours, because reapplying lube can get annoying) with a toy designed for just that! A textured sleeve feels exciting and ~different~ while still giving him the benefit of watching you jack him off. It’s also great when you’re feeling too lazy to take your clothes off and have full-on sex but wouldn’t mind a mutual masturbation sesh.
7. For your boyfriend who just casually mentioned he might like to try butt play at some point.
If he has subtly hinted that he’d be into doing some butt stuff with you, get a butt plug. Butt plugs are great for men and women, so if he wants something in his butt, put something in there! And if he wants to have sex in your butt and you’re not sure about that yet, try a butt plug and see how that feels. Honestly, you both should try this anyway just to say you did. ‘Tis the season for butt play, as all the carols say.
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