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How to Have Sex With a Double-Sided Dildo

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2. Size matters! Taylor J. Mace, a sex educator, says to keep the length in mind when shopping for a double-sided dildo. “A longer one reduces the risk of STI transmission (or infection, if you’re using both ends in yourself) as there will be less genital-to-genital contact, fluid passing from one partner to another, or the toy from going from your butt to your vagina. A few extra inches in between can make a big difference!”

3. Think about your dream peen. Mace says that as with any purchase, consider what you’re buying it for before throwing down your money. “Do you want one that looks like it could be your penis? If so, what does your dream dick look like?” Do you want to go with the realistic looking flesh-colored one? Or would your dream peen be glittery and a totally unrealistic neon color?

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14. Don’t be afraid to get handsy! Dr. Carol Queen, sex educator and resident sexpert at Good Vibrations, says if you’re using a double-sided dildo with a bulb that stays inside one partner, deciding who will do the moving might take some getting used to. “Thrusting towards each other might work,” she explains. But also, don’t be afraid to grab it in the middle and add some motion and stability that way.

15. Not all double-sided dildos are the same. Coco Cameron, sex expert at Lovehoney, says within the umbrella category of double-sided dildos, there are different types. For solo play, you can try the Lovehoney Mini Double Penetration dildo, which has one slightly smaller end for anal play. For couples, Coco recommends the Hoodlum Double Dildo, which has a beginner-friendly shape and size.

16. Add vibration! Lisa, Sex Educator at Babeland, says this way “Even if there’s some slippage or re-positioning needed, the constant buzz will keep the good sensations going.” Lisa recommends the Fun Factory Sharevibe, which is specially designed to hit all the right places inside the vagina, with extra ridge to hit the wearer’s clitoris. Or, you can upgrade any non-vibrating double-sided dildo by slipping a vibrating penis ring over one or both ends!

17. Check in with each other. Like with all sex things, communication is always a good idea. Lisa says “Using a double-ended toy requires some finesse and taking the guesswork out by communicating with your partner is a great way to expedite the process. Things may be feeling great for one partner, while the other’s foot is falling asleep because of the wild position the toy has thrust you both into.” Some awkward fumbling around is bound to happen, but if you communicate with your partner, you both might end up having a really good time.

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Additional reporting by Carina Hsieh

This post was originally published in March 2016 and has been updated.

Source: www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/news/a55966/double-sided-dildos-how-to/

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